Choosing the perfect book for your child can feel overwhelming, especially with so many options available. Let’s be honest, many adults aren’t quite sure how to go about finding the next book they want to read. But what if selecting books became an exciting adventure that your child eagerly anticipates? This is a skill that we can teach your child (and you!) by allowing them to participate in the book selection process. In this blog post you will learn some practical steps to help get your child engaged in book selection. I know these tips for raising readers will be beneficial to you and your family!
How can I get my child interested in reading?
Getting your child interested in reading starts with making it a fun, shared activity. Let them choose books that match their interests (more on that below), create a cozy reading environment, and read together daily. When reading is associated with positive experiences, children are more likely to develop a lasting interest in it.
Also, many parents aren’t aware of this, but Jim Trelease, shares that a child’s silent reading comprehension level does not match up to their listening comprehension level until they are in the 8th grade. Think about it: a child has listened to you read to them for the first five to six years of their life. They need about that same amount of time to feel confident reading on their own!
What are the benefits of letting kids choose their own books?
Allowing children to choose their own books:
- empowers them,
- fosters independence,
- increases their motivation to read,
- and they are more engaged and invested in the reading process.
With these benefits, they will better comprehend and enjoy the story that they have chosen to read.
What should I look for in a children’s book?
When choosing a children’s book, consider factors like age-appropriateness, the complexity of the language, the appeal of the illustrations, and the relevance to your child’s interests. Look for books that are not only entertaining but also offer opportunities for learning and discussion.
I often reference The American Library Association’s website for Notable Children’s Books. They share a list of beautiful books each there from incredible authors and illustrators.
How do I encourage my child to read independently?
Watching your child take steps toward becoming an independent reader is a milestone filled with joy and a bit of apprehension. It’s important to support this transition by establishing a regular reading routine and providing a diverse selection of books that match their interests and reading level. As they gradually spend more time reading on their own, celebrate their progress in order to boost their confidence as a reader.
I still want to emphasize the value of reading aloud to children at this stage, while also recognizing the importance of fostering their ability to read independently. For a deeper dive into practical strategies and tips for encouraging your child’s journey to becoming an independent reader, check out my comprehensive blog post on this subject. It offers detailed guidance to help your child build their reading skills with confidence.
Here are my top 8 tips on how to involve your child in choosing books that align with their interests and developmental stage, ensuring they enjoy every page:
1. Let Your Child Lead the Way in Choosing Books
One of the most effective ways to get your child interested in reading is by allowing them to select the books they want to read. Whether you’re at the library, a bookstore, or browsing online, give your child the freedom to explore different options and pick out books that catch their eye. Guide them to read the back cover and even the first few pages to see if it’s something that would maintain their interest.
Tip: For very young children, offer a selection of age-appropriate books to choose from. This ensures they feel empowered while you maintain some control over the options.
2. Explore Books That Match Your Child’s Interests
Children’s book selection becomes much easier when you focus on their current interests. Whether your child is fascinated by dinosaurs, captivated by fairy tales, or curious about space, finding books that align with their passions can significantly enhance their engagement. When kids see their favorite topics reflected in the pages of a book, they’re more likely to dive in with enthusiasm.
Tip: Before heading to the bookstore or library, ask your child what they’re interested in reading about. You can also find online booklists that cater to specific interests and age groups. I have many of these on my blog! Search “book pairings” on the blog for some of my favorites!
3. Choose Books That Match Their Developmental Stage
Selecting books that are appropriate for your child’s developmental stage is crucial for keeping them engaged. For toddlers, look for books with bright illustrations and simple text. Preschoolers might enjoy stories with repetitive language and rhymes, while older children may prefer chapter books with more complex narratives.
Tip: If you’re unsure what to look for in a children’s book, ask a librarian or bookseller for recommendations. They can guide you to books that are both engaging and developmentally appropriate. I offer a service to help parents find the perfect books for their readers. I am happy to send you a list of books that are a perfect fit for your readers! All you have to do is complete the survey, order your books, and then read!
4. Dive Into a Book Series for Continued Engagement
Once your child finds a book they love, introduce them to a series. Children’s book series provide a sense of familiarity and excitement as they follow characters through new adventures. Series are also an excellent way to build a regular reading habit since kids will naturally want to find out what happens next.
Similar to this, if your child has enjoyed a book in the past, look for other books written by the same author. There is a good chance that the reading style and story line will be similar and resonate with your child.
Tip: Look for book series that match your child’s interests and reading level to keep them engaged and eager for the next installment.
5. Create a Book TBR List Together
Create a To Be Read List together to make book shopping a special event. Sit down with your child and browse book recommendations online, adding the ones that interest them to a list. This activity not only gets them excited about future reading but also teaches them how to make thoughtful choices.
I use Goodreads to track my personal TBR list. It is my go-to resource for when I finish a book and I’m looking for my next great read. Goodreads also has a feature that helps you to find additional book recommendations. Look up the title of a book you already enjoy and scroll down to the section titled “Reads also enjoyed.” There you will see a list of books
Tip: Use the wishlist as part of a reward system. After your child reaches a reading milestone, let them choose a book from the list as a reward, reinforcing their reading habits.
6. Visit Author Events and Book Fairs
Taking your child to book fairs and author events can be an experience that deepens their love of reading. Meeting an author or listening to a book reading can create a strong connection to the stories and characters. Plus, these events often offer exclusive or signed copies, making the book selection process even more special.
I often host book fairs with local schools in my area, helping them to earn free books that they can give back to students or include in their school library. If you are connected with a school in the Central Florida area, contact me for more information about hosting your own school book fair!
Tip: Check with local libraries, independent bookstores, or schools for upcoming author visits or book fairs, and turn it into a family outing.
7. Make Book Selection Part of Your Routine
Incorporating book selection into your regular routine can transform it into an anticipated activity. Whether it’s a weekly library trip, a monthly bookstore visit, or an online book browsing night, consistency helps build excitement and anticipation for reading. I have a toddler and preschooler and we visit storytime at the library each week. They get so excited about going and checking out a few books during our visit, too.
Tip: Pair book selection with another enjoyable activity, like a special treat or setting up a cozy reading nook (or reading tent!), to make the experience even more delightful.
8. Discuss and Reflect on Book Choices
After your child has chosen their books, take time to discuss what they picked and why. Ask them what they’re excited about, what they think will happen in the story, or how they relate to the characters. This reflection helps them feel more connected to their choices and sets the stage for deeper engagement with the book.
Tip: Use this discussion time to talk about the types of books they’d like to explore next, keeping the excitement for reading alive. Many of these conversations can lead to deeper questions or topics of interest that they might not have had before. You can always explore nonfiction books on some of these topics!
Nurturing a Love of Reading
Involving your child in the book selection process is a powerful way to nurture a love of reading. By letting them lead, choosing books they like, and making it fun, you’re raising a reader. It’s not just about finding the perfect book but about the joy of discovery and the memories you create together.
Next time you’re searching for a new book, invite your child to join the adventure. Together, you’ll be building a lifelong love for reading and learning.
